One of the most ideal relationship setups is when your girlfriend is friends with your best buddies. I have this ideal set up with my current girlfriend. She doesn’t object to boys’ night outs and they don’t mind having her around on those nights either. And it’s be beneficial for the women, too; in the words of a good friend of mine, “when you’re friends with his friends, they won’t tolerate anything that will lead to cheating because they care about you as a friend as much as they do about him”. For more great advice join as a member of the ProFraternity Organization – go here : http://profraternity.org/apply-for-membership/
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Unfortunately for many men out there, buddies and girlfriends don’t always mix. Girlfriends find buddies as distractions, one to compete their boyfriends’ time with; meanwhile, guy buddies (especially the single ones) find her exactly the same. They feel like their buddy, you, has been taken away from them by the evil little witch called the girlfriend.
In the name of civility and decency, these two don’t really show each other their mutual hatred. While the girlfriend may smirk at the idea of you spending the night with your buddies, or try to convince you to ditch them for her, buddies do not have that same honesty privilege as the girlfriend. They may even deny it the first time you ask.
Know the Signs!
So before you lose a brain and a half trying to guess whether or not they dislike her since you’re a buddy that is inlove to her, here are some really effective questions to ask yourself. Do your friend/s ask if she’s coming to hang out with them or not. If she’s truly a welcome presence, they don’t need to ask. They wouldn’t mind having her around and in fact, they would expect her to be present because they see her as part of the gang. And if they ask, that can only mean that they want to know if the hangout is going to be at all fun or not and that depends on her presence or absence.
Are they not very enthusiastic about her presence? One good sign that says your friends don’t like her is when they act a little different around her. Some change in behavior could be expected during the first few meetings but if they are not quite at ease about having her around and they act differently even after several meetings
Do they try to lure you into going out with them secretly. They don’t like her, and they see her as competition. They therefore would lure you into going out with them, without her and maybe behind her back! And that is their way of spending some QT with you without having to share you with her unwelcome presence.
If things go wrong between you and your girlfriend, are they likely to tell you to break up with her instead of telling you to patch things up? They actually think she’s not good for you and they believe you’d be better off without her. (And yes, they’d get their friends back).
Finally, do they constantly ask whether you’re happy with her or not? They want to know whether or not you are actually happy – one because they are concerned that you don’t see the evil they see in her, and two, they just want it to come from you.
After reading this article, buy her an inexpensive gift to buy her to make her feel better. So, how are your buddies with your lady love? Do you see these signs in them?
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