In my previous blog post, I’ve discussed why men love to date an older woman. Well, today we’re going to discuss how to not turn her off. It doens’t matter what you achieve in life; Harvard MBA, great job (ProFraternity Organization Chair for Continuous Education) even I’ve managed to fall victim to a couple of these once or twice.
It is easier to turn women off than to turn them off. I am sorry gentlemen, but that’s hardcore gospel truth. Women get turned off by every single thing. They get turned off from things that you do, and the things that you don’t do. Nothing works. When it comes to women, there is hardly a one-size-fits-all kind of turn on device/technique. And trust that there will always, always be something about you that will turn them off. ProFraternity brother’s know this; to join as a member of the ProFraternity Organization – go here: http://profraternity.org/apply-for-membership/
You thought the date went well – so why isn’t she calling you back? Read more here.
But there’s a silver lining. There are ways how to not turn her off.
If you can’t turn her on, you may have a better chance if you aim at not turning her off. These techniques can be used anywhere and in any situation involving you and a woman. You could use this in a bar when flirting, on a date with any woman, in a party when you’re trying to socialize – practically anything.
Ways to avoid turning her OFF!
After the guide on getting a girl’s number, here’s your practical list of how not to turn women off.
Always be hygienic. This is the single most effective thing that may not exactly turn women on, but will definitely keep you from turning her off. Smell good, smell clean, look clean, be clean. Have an overall hygienic attitude. Know the basics – use deodorant, shower every day, brush your teeth regularly, take breath mints with you – you know the drill. And best of all, be hygienic in everything – don’t spit in public, eat with your mouth closed, don’t bite on your fingernails, etc. A single thing that tells her you’re unhygienic will spot on turn her off.
And stop trying too hard. This is something that’s a little hard to do when you’re having a case of the nerves or when you’re taken over by your insecurity. But trying too hard makes you look unnatural. You know how dogs actually become aggressive at you when you’re nervous around them? That’s the same way with women. Your unnatural and nervous vibe will send her negative signals that translate to her getting turned off at you. So be yourself and let her find the great thing about it!
Oh, don’t smother her either. Women love attention, but smothering is a wholly other thing. Don’t be the puppy that waits on her and is always at her beck and call. Be the gentleman with dignity – the type who gives her attention without kissing her rear end or go lapping at her tiny toes. Listen to her but command enough of her attention by being dignified. And PS: don’t be sorry for being yourself.
And don’t be too eager. Women love the chase. As much as you do, men (admit it). Go tell her that you like her, show it to her, but don’t show her that you’re about to become her slave just so you can get her to like you. There are only two places for the overeager guy: friend zone and the 100-meter restraining order. 🙂
Remember, you may not get to turn her on but at least don’t go about losing your chance by turning her off! Good luck!