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Did you know that dating a tomboy can be so much easier, more fun and more exciting than dating a girly girl? If there are different kids of men. There are those who prefer dating older women, some prefer dating independent ones, and other prefer dating tomboys. Yes. There’s a certain kind of attractiveness to a tomboy.
For one, she won’t mind you sitting all day on the couch all day watching UFC? She may even be more excited than you on the day of the Superbowl! And boy, won’t you just like a girl that you can take to boys’ night out with you to play pool and not go home grumpy or crying in the middle of the date because she feels out of place?
In so many ways, tomboys will make for low maintenance girlfriends who will understand and actually enjoy your guy stuff with you.
But that’s not the point of this article. The point here is whether or not you can actually score a date with a tomboyish girl. Seriously, can you handle her, erm, masculinity? Can you take the competition or will your ego take you over?
Here are some tips on everything that involves dating a tomboy – from scoring a date to actually taking her out. These are just some of good stuff. If you want to see all the meat, read the dating guide from Sonic Seduction.
The foremost thing to understand when dating tomboys is to always remember that she is still a girl foremost of all. She will gush with sweet gestures done at the right time and the right way, and she will still appreciate a guy who will attempt at chivalry. Forget about all your preconceived notions of how tomboys are and enjoy the wonders of discovering how great they are. Never aim at making her a girly girl. Embrace her type of girliness. That’s what makes her interesting and lovely.
Don’t feel threatened by her. So she does better hoops than you. She can take down a man better than you could ever. Or she knows her football better than you. So what? That’s what she likes, what do you care? Instead, indulge her in a little competition every now and then – beer drinking contest, sharp shooting, karting – go on a showdown with her on her favorite hobbies instead of the usual dates and she’ll likely to enjoy your company more. And learn to compliment her the right way. These are not the girls that will like being called ‘pretty’ and ‘cute’. They’ll think you’re just the same as every other guy who’s only after their looks.
Compliment her on her hobbies and passions. Show her how impressed you are. Don’t bluff. Tomboys are just as sensitive as their more feminine relatives so be careful when trying to sweet talk her IT WON’T WORK.
Lastly, just respect her, still, just like a lady. SO she can take a hard pat in the back – that does not mean you should do it. She is just like any other girl and therefore treat her like one. Be proper, watch your manners still, and make her feel like a respectable lady and not some buddy who can tolerate you blowing your nose in front of her.
They’re definitely not your average girl to date. They are so interesting you would like to know more about them. Read this for personal accounts of being a tomboy. So step up on your manliness to impress these very tough ladies. Good luck and for some great advice on where to take your tomboy for dinner read here!