Today’s guest post comes from one of our successful brothers who hails from Boston, Massachusetts. His name is Keith Fisher, a long-time motivational speaker and a successful dating seminar speaker for the past 5 years. On this post, he writes about why men love to date older women and how the trend has changed the way dating works. Listen to what he’s got to say.
It is a usual picture to see a man dating a younger woman. However, it is not very common to see a twenty year old guy dating a woman in her late thirties. It may seem to defy tradition or social norms, because before, men are only wondering how to get a girlfriend who is younger than him or the same age. Rare though this situation may be, some people are starting to accept this reality. The question is, why do these men love to date women who are older than they are? If you are one of the guys who are confused about a woman whom you like but is quite older than you, then you should not be too bothered about it. Don’t be too apprehensive about what others might think. It is not always true that guys who date older woman are only after her wealth. So know more about the true advantages of dating an older woman by reading on.
First of all, bear in mind that older women are at the peak of their womanhood. This means that they are more experienced and are more reliable in terms of handling their relationships. Since they are far more experienced than other younger women, they are more understanding of your needs such as the need to have more time for fun with friends and more quality time with your family. In other words, they think and act more maturely by weighing the pros and the cons as well as carefully thinking the right and the wrong before reacting to certain things. Dating a woman who understands a man’s needs is a good start to having the kind of relationship you have dreamed of.
Second of all, older women are more behaved. Behaved in this context, means that at their age, they don’t go partying every night so you won’t have to be mad about her and your time for each other. Instead, they give more importance to casual dinner and meaningful conversations. As mentioned, they are more experienced and so they have a lot to share and talk about with their ideas which are never pointless. This means that they are not boring people contrary to what others believe. You will see that dating an older woman becomes a learning process in your part as well.
Finally, older women are not intimidating. That’s a fact about older women that you might not believe because others would always believe the otherwise. The truth is that most of the young ones are quite intimidated by older women’s status and level of intelligence. Indeed, wisdom is the product of age and experience. However, ironic it might seem to be, it is their wisdom that makes them less intimidating.
Another commonly overlooked characteristic of older women is that they are less demanding in terms of your time or the quality of the place you’re dating. In other words, you don’t have to prove a lot of things to them. It all boils down to their mature and more experienced quality. If you date with someone like them, you will realize that they are people to be highly respected or looked up rather than people that everyone should be intimidated with.
So if you have been so into liking a woman older than you are, don’t be embarrassed. Instead, show them what you’ve got– you’ve got your best girl who can rock a whole new world with you.
For more from Keith Fisher, check out our previous article about dating seminars.